Play hard to get while dating
I was worried about coming across as needy if I replied right away, or seeming too eager for the second date.
But I quickly learned that when I played hard to get, I missed out on opportunities to genuinely connect with him.
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), I tested out quite a few of the pieces of advice that were given to me.
While some of them turned out to be unhelpful, others were downright destructive when put into practice.
This is something a mother may tell her daughter, but I doubt men are given that advice when preparing for a date.
But what I quickly came to realize is that not all dating advice is created equal.
After that first date with Joseph (who is now my husband!
When someone plays hard get to get, they’re focused on getting the upper hand and controlling the relationship.
“When you’re determined to play it cool to impress someone, you lose sight of what you actually want.