Dating when your girlfriend doesnt call
) -He can't cheat or date other people -He is most likely in it for the long haul (whether that's a few months or a few years) I think women who avoid titles have the same issues.Ultimately, agreeing that you're "boyfriend-girlfriend" is agreeing on the logistics of a relationship. Why not enjoy yourself while she is gone for these 11 days. It seems like you're more worried about her well-being than yours. my girlfriend went to another country to visit family for christmas she will be gone for 11 days.....never called me when she got there just sent me a short email 10 hours later saying shes safe and she got there and wishing me a merry christmas....i emailed her back and was just telling her i love her and miss her and things .....the next day i get another short email just saying its raining here and ill cya soon! is it me or is she being cold cuz she doesnt say she misses me or anything and doesnt even call??? That's 11 days out of the year she gets to spend with her family, so let her enjoy it. She's on vaca with her family and they probably wouldn't appreciate her racking up the long distance phone bill, which might be why she didn't call. im a little disappointed but i dont know if im overreacting... Give her a chance to settle in and visit her family. I didn't call my ex when I went to another country because I wouldn't have been able to afford the phone bill and he understood. Indeed it is a right of passage to update that Facebook status.The "single" on my Facebook status is old, dusty and rotting.
To a guy, here are the things that change after he has a girlfriend: -He's off the market -He can't look around as much (or as obviously?
But at the same time I understand how someone can get nervous if someone doesn't call them a boyfriend/girlfriend after a while. My favorite are the story is (and I think this happens more often than I think): the guy is with with friends or family and says: "This is my , so-and-so," and it's the first time he's ever referred to her that way. It's a scary step, just like the saying "I love you" step.
So I'm still divided; do you think it's legitimate to get hung up on "titles"?
Whilst she's away, why not use the extra time you have to visit friends you don't see that much, or perhaps family of your own if possible?
whenever i have a gf and she goes on vacation i don't bug her. It's a time to relax, and just for a very short time to put aside your obligations and responsibilities and do things purely for yourself.